When you want something in a relationship, it’s good to exercise honesty.
However, if your partner can’t be direct, they may cross into boundary-crossing behavior like manipulation to get you to do what they want.
Manipulation is inherently unfair and, although often subtle and indirect, manipulation can also be very explicit.
You’re not your full self around them.
If you’re afraid of setting off your partner's anger or displeasure, and you’re constantly monitoring yourself around them, you may be dealing with a manipulative partner.
If you notice the urge or pressure to constantly justify every big and small decision, it could be a sign that you’re being manipulated
It’s normal to want your partner to show up for you the way you hope.
Your manipulating partner may make you feel like your needs are too much.
Your partner shouldn’t be controlling who you see, when you see them.
You start wondering if you’re worthy and lovable; as if your self-esteem is taking a hit.